when they scream, just tell yourself...ITS JUST A PHASE...JUST A PHASE..SABAR...
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kalau miya tantrum, dia at times throw her book & toys. then dia kata "hook ooo..oh no". then dia merajuk ala2 heroin filem p.ramlee.
There are times I just buat bodo until she hush, then baru I pujuk & explain that such behavior is a huge NO-NO.
But time hati lemah tu, mmg la I pujuk and even reward her...I know rewarding when kids having tantrum is a huge parenting mistake. Apa boleh buat, hati ibu ini lemah and at time kesabaran pun ada limit.
more info also at http://www.bellybelly.com.au/articles/toddler/toddler-tears-tantrums and http://www.babycenter.com.au/toddler/penelopeleach/copingtantrums/
-edited additional info: if u have kids with tantrum yg menakutkan u as a mom, cam refer to blog stephanie-ryan's mom
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My doter recently into habit of "jelir2 lidah". Lama plak tue setiap kali buat camtu. Kiter cubit2 tangan & peha suruh stop pon xjalan. Hangin satu badan! Ntah mana dia belajar (from TV kot), sbb abg dia tak buat pula gitu. Yg peliknya, dia hanya jelir pada saya, not to her ayah. Gatal jerr tangan nie nak slap her mouth.
Aghhh, what to do ekk mama Miya? :(
mummy harith hannah--> ni la anak, macam kerenah..ada yg baring benda, ada yg gigit org, ada yg say bad words and sometimes say hurtfulthings kat kita. nak tak nak kena try be firm. explain kat dia napa that behavior is not good, then hukum dia (kena timeout, take away fav toy, kalau nak ditangankan? to u you la..tp jgn tgn saje, pastikan dia paham dulu kenapa dia kena tgn tu.) apa2 nak buat, pastikan dia paham kenapa u r doing it & bukan saje2 u nak sakitkan hati dia.
i dulu kalau jelir2 or talk back, gerenti kena cili.
ha ha.. it's always jadi mama punya nightmare bile start tantrum... sabar.. sabar.. sabar
zaffran klo tntrum suka nk melonjak bdn dia n msti akn bump kpla kt lnti if tk bg apa dia nak....huhuhu
tkpun sembam kt lnti smbil nangis..
sllunyer akn larikn diri if nk mula tntrumm
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