Mommies coping with stress (part 2)

Behavior of Children That Can trigger Anger, Abuse & Frustration:

• Screaming
• Refuse to feed & fussy eater
• Tantrums & whinning
• Biting
• Disobidience aka Degil aka Buas satu macam
• Potty training
• Making a huge mess after you have cleaned the house

Yup, bringing up kids is not easy & sometime parents do feel the difficulty in coping with it. Sometimes we lose temper, then we might hit or cubit the kid. Even sometimes we can just shook them by our scream.

We know it is not right, but it did happen. So what should we do? try to remember these few points..or at least ini la what i keep on reminding myself:

• most children go thru periods of tantrums, disobedience and untruthfullness.
• no parents are perfect & there is no such thing as the perfect child.
• all parents become frustrated at times.
• children learn from us, if we scream or hit them, they will end up doing the same thing.

So what other thing I can do to let of some steam? I talk to my other friends with small kids. Just venting it out helps, eventho it doesn't solve the problem..what do u think?